So! I’m working my way through this journal called The Castle of the Pearl by Christopher Biffle. It helps you sort through your life and find out what the Great Pearl of wisdom is for your life. As I’ve been writing, I’ve felt strongly there are two phrases I needed to keep in mind this time through. Both came to me at the same time. The first was Just Breathe (which Plato at Plato’s Groove has often said to me when I’m having a conniption about something) and the second was Embrace Imperfection.
Wanting to keep those catch phrases at the forefront of my mind, then, and since I tend to drink a lot of tea while working in my journal, I ordered myself two new coffee mugs from Zazzle.com. I was very excited. It just felt right! I designed the dragonfly mug. 😀
But then, after I had placed the order, The Frothy Filosopher, Derek Lee, suggested I should have spelled Imperfection wrong. My heart kind of sank because I thought that would have been really cool and illustrated exactly what I was trying to absorb. I called Zazzle to see if I could change the order if they hadn’t started on it already, but I was too late. I was a little disappointed, but sometimes that’s just the way things work out.
They finally came today. They were each wrapped in YARDS of bubble wrap. I freed my Just Breathe mug first. Was pleased that the blue color I chose for the inside matched so well. Then I undid the tape and started to unroll the dragonfly mug. That bloomin’ mug slipped out of my hand just as slick as snot on a door nob (as my old gaffer used to say — I mean my dad 😀 ), and I dropped it. Sigh… My heart broke. You can’t see it well in the picture, but the crack goes clear down the side.
I was a bit teary and called his lordship to cry on his shoulder. Being the practical man that he is, he said, “Just order another one.” 😮 I thought, “Well ok then!” and happily got back on Zazzle to order another mug. This time, however, I DID deliberately misspell Imperfecton, and I made the font size a wee bit smaller.
The odd thing was, I had a $10 off coupon, but when it added my order up at the end when I hit submit, it didn’t take it off. I ended up calling Zazzle and the young man who answered the phone was none other that an actual, bloomin’ Irishman! (For those of you who don’t know me, I am TOTALLY smitten with Ireland and will be visiting there next year. It is the ONLY thing on my bucket list!) Well I can tell you that was the biggest treat of my day! And how very Serendipitous was that! 😀
So in the end I went to throw the broken cup in the wastebasket — but I couldn’t bring myself to do it. Even in its imperfection I couldn’t throw it out. It was perfectly imperfect! This is what I did instead…
I’m sitting here smiling because I had asked Plato earlier today what his definition of play was. As I was typing this I got his answer: “Play is gaining a new pencil pen holder. 🙂 ” 😀
It just proves what part of this journaling experience is all about for me, that even Imperfect things have their place in this world and can be loved. What a wonderful lesson to learn from a broken cup.
So now I’m excited to see what other lessons God has in store during the months it will take to complete my stay at the Castle. I think it would take something pretty cool to top this one, though.
PS. Percy says hello. 😀
Photo Credits:
Girl — nomadicalsabbatical.com
All others — personal
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Great story! Thanks for sharing the link with me.
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Thanks for stopping by for a read, LuAnne. Life’s full of lessons, isn’t it! (Sometimes they cost you!)
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When I first saw the picture of the broken mug, Calen, I thought it has arrived that way… your imperfect cup coming home to you.. then saw that it slipped and broke.. still, what a happenstance moment! Love that you gave it a new home and purpose instead of throwing it out.. I have a chip clay vase that I used to hold pencils 🙂 I really enjoyed the lessons in this post (and comments!). Thank you, Calen!
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Fimnora says she thinks it was supposed to be that way. Who am I to argue? 🙂
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Yep, I have to agree with her 🙂
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May I make a suggestion please. Take transparent nail polish and paint over the broken edges, this way you can’t hurt yourself.
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I will do that ASAP. Thanks for the heads up, Bridget.
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So _ was reading this post, and when I got to the photo of the crack down the side of it, I thought, how brave (and kooky) of Calen to break it in order to make it imperfect – and then I learnt it was an accident.
I don’t know whether I should use the word serendipity it this instance, but that’s how it looks to me. If you hadn’t broken the cup you wouldn’t have ordered the new, improved version, in keeping it you genuinely embraced imperfection, AND you got to speak to an Irishman.
Sounds to me like you had a pretty successful day… 🙂
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Well what I was thinking when I dropped it was “Oh crap! Drollery’s gonna shoot me!” 😮 I think I was in a bit of shock and denial.
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you shouldn’t’a’ married a man who shoots people for breaking crockery. I never kill anyone unless they do something really serious, like eat my cheese without asking…
or my chocolate 😀
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LOL. As if he ever would. He’s seen “Bambi” a few too many times. 😀
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You’re not going to believe this, but I’ve NEVER seen Bambi. I heard about it and didn’t want to make a fool of myself by bursting into tears!
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I can’t watch it…
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It’s probably for the best…
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Oh my goodness I love love the broken cup because well, it’s so broken. Remember the story of the velveteen rabbit? You can’t truly know love and be loved until you are worn and shabby and broken. 😍
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That’s one of my two favorite children’s-type stories. When I was tutoring first grade in the school district, the school gave me a beautiful, over-sized copy of it for a gift. I love it. (The other favorite is “The Giving Tree.”)
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😀 oh yeah!
So as I was reading through the comments after your wonderful post, I saw something that reminded me of this about Persian Rugs:
A Persian rug is perfectly imperfect, and precisely imprecise.
Traditional, hand-made Persian rugs have intentional flaws because the Muslim artists feel that only Allah is perfect and has the right to create perfectly.
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How awesome to have that on here to keep from this journey! Thank you, Fim, for putting it on here. That’s just lovely… And I didn’t know that!
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I love this story and i love that you kept the cup and so “perfect” that Percy was there in the end!
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😀 Well, we didn’t GO anywhere yesterday per se, but Percy is always with me. Figured since he’s my mascot for this adventure through the Castle he deserves and honorable mention. I KNEW you’d get the importance of the cup moment. 🙂
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You can’t have enough broken mugs or china, they make beautiful mosaic pieces, although they are perfect for little flowers or plant starters. I am very lucky to be that clumpy…I never run out. 🙂
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I DID actually think about putting a starter plant in it but was afraid it would leak through the crack. I do that, too. I love dishes for stuff like that. I have a clear, green-glass lemonade pitcher that makes a marvelous vase!
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Laughter here. I have a punch bowl that’s a cactus home and an old soup dish proudly provides shelter for one of my orchids. 🙂
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I think we must both come from that generation that didn’t thrown ANYTHING out as long as it could be useful. Like toilet paper roll cores. They are the best things in the world for gather up a long cord and sticking one of those on to hold it nice and neat. 😀
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Of course, all our Christmas lights are rolled up on empty paper roll cores. Not throwing stuff away and not using the new or better things, I kinda wrote about it today after I had cleaned out our fridge -again-.
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As soon as I read you dropped it, my first thought was there’s her imperfection!!!! It’s all about Wani Sabi GF!! 😄
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Now I had to look that up and I absolutely love the concept! In fact, going to post something on it I found! Fim swears that cup was bound to be dropped from the time it came into the house, and yet I didn’t drop it on purpose. It just fell out of the bubble wrap. It’s all so intriguing. Thank you, girlfriend, for bringing that up!
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I have the book LIVING WABI SABI The True Beauty If Your Life by Taro Gold…I’ve got so. Ice of that book highlighted!!!
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Be nice to find a magazine about it…
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I never looked…if you come across anything let me know!
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I have a lovely grey/blue mug on my desk and could not throw it away when I dropped it in the sink and hit a plate also in the sink, to this day that mug stands on my desk with assorted pens and a letter opener I hang my door keys on – how many others do the same using cracked mugs as pen holders?
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I know. Not an original idea, but I was standing over the garbage can and just couldn’t bear to throw it away. it was the perfect visual for my 2016 Journey through the Castle! 😀
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What a great story!! Thanks so much for sharing Calen! Made me smile and touched my heart! 💖💖
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Hey there, hon! This is the other comment that got put in the Spam folder. Hope I’ve got you fixed now. Let me know if your comments won’t post. Thanks! ❤
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There is a Korean artist named Yee Sookyung who takes broken discard pottery from master potters and makes them into new pieces of art putting gold into the cracks. The results are lumpy and odd and yet quite lovely and infinitely interesting.
“The master potter was trying to create the perfect piece each time, and he would discard even the ones with the slightest flaw. So I chose to create new forms from them, because perhaps, I don’t believe completely in that kind of perfection.” -Yee Sookyung.
i LOVE the idea of embracing imperfection.
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LOVE some of these pieces! Thanks for bringing them to my attention!
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You know, I’ve got some gold paint. I wonder if I ought embellish the edges that are broken out and also along the crack. Interesting… I may have to think about that. I’m so glad you posted this comment!
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