I was rifling through a pile of papers in my desk drawer today and found something I had written six years ago, not long after my son and his wife had moved in with us. The marriage was a disaster from the get go, and having them live here with us, being privy to all the arguing that was going on, was difficult. What was even more difficult for me and Drollery was keeping our mouths shut and staying out of their business.
One day I’d just had enough, so I shut myself up in my room and scribbled this poem about Words. I’d forgotten all about it. Gonna post it just for fun. It was a “colorful” poem. LOL
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The Taste of Words
(Or “Sometimes I Get REALLY P*ssed and
I Just Have to Shut Up ‘Cause You Never
Know When You’ll Have to Eat Your Words!”)
They had another battle last night –
our son and daughter-in-law –
down in the bedroom where
we can hear every Word.
They fell out of the kids’ mouths
like a stream of blue, black vomit.
Now this morning Words are
bumping and jostling each other
to spew out of my mouth as well.
Not colorful, kind words like a
handful of rainbow Skittles, but
brown, as if I had picked
out all the dark M&M’s.
Brown is such a dismal, depressed color.
There would be red ones, too, for anger.
But I daresn’t say them for fear I will
have to eat them again later.
God only knows what
regurgitated chocolate M&M’s
might taste like.
Instead, I quickly gather them up
as they spring forth in my mind
and shove them back into the candy bag
where no one can see what I’m thinking.
Some people refer to that as
“eating your emotions.”
I’ve eaten a LOT of Words
over the holidays this year.
Gained 5 lbs.
I ate a lot of brown ones when
my son dropped a glass that didn’t
break, and my daughter-in-law
proceeded to tell him what a clumsy
oaf he was.
Then yesterday I picked out all the
red ones when he dropped another
glass and broke it this time, and
you’d have thought it was the
end of the freakin’ world.
If they can’t maneuver their way
through a broken, cheap glass
from McDonalds, how the hell
are they going to pick their way
through the hills and valleys of
a marriage?
So today I shoved all the M&M’s
back in the bag and went, instead,
for a Raspberry Mocha Frappacino Grande
at Starbuck’s.
The problem is, it was brown, too,
and I came away feeling even more
gloomy for I probably added
another pound to the problem.
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Picture Credits:
M & M’s — theyesgirls.com
Skittles — www.emaze.com
Sign — www.pinterest.com
Oh wow, Calen… this was a colorful poem and I can completely understand how ‘fat’ you can get for eating your words. I did it for years with the ex and when I finally started regurgitating the Words, I lost 20 lbs and left the Words on the floor as I left and returned to VA. According to the ex, they are still splattered all over that room. He’s closed it off and left it just as it was when I left him.
Honestly, I don’t know how you dealt with your son and his wife’s arguments. Arguing is exhausting, having to hear it from the outside and not being able to do anything about it is near-fatal. *hugs*
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🙂 It must be REALLY sticky in there after two years! 😉
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I was trying to imagine what you’d be writing about with a title like “The Taste of Words.” And having seen it was M&Ms, I don’t think I’d mind tasting every word regardless of anything. But I do get what you were saying. If words had a taste, and a person felt they had to ‘eat their words,’ it would be better that it was something more like, say, yucky food, then we’d be way more cautious before speaking. It’s hard to swallow words to begin with, but (blech) regurgitated ones… ewe!
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Yep. That’s what I figured! 🙂
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That sounds like a hard time with all those M&M’s being shoved back in the bag all the time. It is hard to watch our children in a bad relatiobship.
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Especially one that’s lasted nine years. They were only together for three of those years. Our son has been SO stuck…
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I tend to keep my mouth shut…..prefer that to having stuff come back and. It’s me in the butt! 🙊
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It was hard. This little house was plum full with all of us here. There was no getting away from the arguments. But I was proud of us.
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I can relate a bit…lived with my in laws for a year….😁
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You created pictures in my mind
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Were they the perdy ones or ugly ones??? 😀
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When my mother was alive, she could not but help herself and get involved in rows between my late husband and myself (usually started via my mother). So you did very well Cheryl to keep out of the rows.
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Yes. Didn’t want to get blamed for anything…
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As they say here, “Bon courage”… 😘
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Hey friend! {{{HC}}} I’ll pass that on to him. 🙂
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Lol !! Great poem. Glad that time has passed for everyone.
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Not quite yet. They’ve been separated for five years and are now heading for divorce… Our son just didn’t want to give up.
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At least they’re not both at home with you. That must be a relief.
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Yeah. She’s in Florida, we’re in Utah. She’s got a lot of problems, one of which is being OCD. I think Bran thought since he had a psychology degree he was equipped to deal with them. He found out fairly quickly that wasn’t the case. Sadly for both of them.
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