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If you were lost, what would help you find your way?
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That’s the question from Roberta Allen’s book (The Playful Way to Knowing Yourself) in this week’s Sandbox Writing Challenge.
My first response was to lead off with Tolkien’s quote (in Tengwar) from Lord of the Rings,
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That’s one of my favorite quotes of all time. I even got to use it at church a while back. One of the folks in the congregation who doesn’t know me well saw me standing at the back of the sanctuary looking dazed and confused (I was looking FOR someone in particular) and actually said to me, “You look a little lost.” I couldn’t resist. . 😀 I turned to her and said, “Not all who wander are lost!” Of course she had absobloominlutely NO idea what the heck I was talking about. The moment fell rather flat. My smile faded quickly, and, red-faced, I went off to find my friend.
However (and despite the fact that Spiritual Dragonfly got to it before I did), I realized in pondering about this prompt there’s another quote that probably fits even better. You see, I’m ALWAYS lost to some degree or other! Oh, not on a physical plane. I never head anywhere without getting Goggle directions first if I don’t know where I’m going. I may be a little dense at times, but I didn’t just fall off the turnip truck yesterday. I KNOW to print those suckers out then keep my eyes on the mountain east of us.
It’s my mind I have trouble with. Not with knowing where I put things or forgetting appointments (though both happen more often than I care to admit these days). That’s not the kind of lost I’m talking about. No, it’s the MAZE that is ME in which I’m usually lost. For some reason I’ve convinced myself that life is a puzzle and I MUST find the answer. I tell myself that everything will be alright as long as I keep moving. (Which explains why meditation is such a problem for me.)
So there it is. I’m usually LOST IN MY OWN THOUGHTS. Some people mistake that for being self-centered, but for me it’s just a matter of survival. And since I don’t have any kind of tribal council to advise me, I spend a LOT of time wandering.
But I have at least taken the trepidation out of the whole labyrinthine process by subscribing to Rainer Maria Rilkes’s suggestion:
Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves . . . Live the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answer.
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And THAT is what helps me when I find I’m feeling lost. If I can find the next question, I can usually keep moving forward.
(Echoes of Plato the Younger are rumbling through my head, “Why?”. 😀 )
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Picture Credits:
Tengwar quote — forums.theonering.com
Mt. Ogden — www.meetup.com
Mind Maze — associatesmind.com
LuAnne Holder said:
Once again your post reminds me of a poem I re-read just yesterday – Lost by David Wagoner, http://www.ayearofbeinghere.com/2013/09/david-wagoner-lost.html Enjoy!
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calensariel said:
“Stand still. The trees ahead and bushes beside you Are not lost.” Wow… That thought right there begs a little pondering itself. Thanks, LuAnne, for posting that link. It was pretty cool. That’s so true, isn’t it? If you’re lost everything else around you knows right where it is. 😀 My mind has to play with that.
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LuAnne Holder said:
So glad you liked it. I thought you would. I am still pondering the idea.
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Soul Gifts said:
I just learnt a new saying! “Didn’t fall off the turnip truck” lol 🙂 I have friends with geographic dyslexia (more women than men suffer from that) – two of them are really quite prone to getting lost even in a familiar place. I have a touch of it but have at least learnt to read maps through sheer necessity …
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calensariel said:
LOL (Hey, that getting lost in a familiar place sounds scary!!! A little like Alzheimers.)
Seriously? You’ve never heard that?
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Soul Gifts said:
A couple are just really hopeless with finding their way around – no sign of any memory loss thought 🙂 Never, ever, ever heard of that one !! I like it 🙂
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Fimnora Westcaw said:
You said: “I tell myself that everything will be alright as long as I keep moving. (Which explains why meditation is such a problem for me.)”
You know, there is a form of meditation where you do move, physically. Often a labyrinth is used, but really you can walk anywhere, and be present to your place in space and time. It’s easier than sitting still.
I really love this post, because it resonates with my own situation. 🙂
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calensariel said:
Walking meditation, yeah, I’ve done that a few times. I have to have music going in my ears for that to work for me. It’s ok, but I like sitting better.
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Fimnora Westcaw said:
Most of my meditations are visualizations, and that always included music. It’s usually special music, that I use only for meditation.
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spiritualdragonfly said:
Didn’t mean to ‘steal’ your thunder C 😱 but like minds 😉
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calensariel said:
Just teasing, you know! I like the Rilke one better for me. 😀 At least that way I always know where I am! IN THE QUESTION! LOL
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loristrawn said:
Boy, do I resonate with this one!
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calensariel said:
I would like to say age has a lot to do with it, but I’ve been this way all my life!!! 😀
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nonsmokingladybug said:
Meditation is not easy and the clarity of the mind, or a blank mind, doesn’t come easy and for sure not overnight. The more I tried, the more I failed. I could not focus and 100 thoughts were crossing my mind when I tried to relax.
“How can one have a blank mind?” I thought and it really puzzled me. Now it’s a daily routine that I need. It clears my mind and it keeps me balanced. Physical activity helps a lot. Running, power walking or dancing, or riding a bike. The more you sweat, the less you think -the only thought you have is survival LOL.
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calensariel said:
I’m ok with meditation. Once I realized it was never going to be REALLY TOTALLY quiet in my head I was ok. When the thoughts came I just let them flutter by. I have a hard time with meditating for more than 20 minutes or so, however. I get antsy.
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