So our daughter Stef and her entourage (four little ones under 6 — three of them boys!) got in yesterday. Managed to get then home by 6:00 and were so pooped out we ordered pizza. We have a VERY small house, so sleeping arrangements were wall-to-wall in the TV, but they were all so beat we didn’t hear a peep out of them all night..
Then this morning we were up at 6:30 and made eggs, bacon, waffles with strawberries for breakfast. They were borrowing our OLD Suburban (which gets 10 mpg) to drive up to see the other grandparents in Idaho for a week before coming back here to stay for a week.
You know, I don’t think we ever truly realize how much our kids watch us as they’re growing up. Stef was 7 when we adopted her. She was beating eggs for me this morning with a wire whisk and she waxed all sentimental. She said, “I used to love watching you use this whisk. I never could figure out how you made it work. Now Caleb watches me the same way.” She kind of leaned over and snuggled a bit.
Who would have thought something as mundane as whisking eggs, of all things, could make a mom feel all gushy inside and be a bonding thing. It was just so normal.
I’ve missed all the firsts in her life except her wedding. We haven’t been there for any of her births, any of the first words, steps, birthdays of the kiddos. That’s always made me feel very sad. But it’s moments like this morning when I’m aware that the bond is still there between us that kind of makes it all ok.
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wire whisk
whisk goes round and round
two hearts blended into one
mother-daughter bond
Stef and baby Lydia Rose
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Ethan, Liam, Jesse, Caleb, and Lydia
(Caleb’s the one you gotta watch out for. He’s one busy little dude!!!)
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Picture Credit:
whisk — www.aliexpress.com
Shannon said:
You have beautiful grandchildren!! I knew who Caleb was before you indicated it to Janie….the eyes..hahaha
I must admit I have a soft spot for wild children. 🙂
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calensariel said:
LOL! Well you’d love this one then, Shannon! He’s a corker!
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Colleen Keehne said:
Awwwww…so cute! Enjoy your time with them!
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janebasilblog said:
Awww! Such a beautiful family – is Caleb the one bottom left of the picture? He looks lively. It’s a shame you can’t spend more time with them – it’s the way of the world these days.
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calensariel said:
Yep that’s Caleb. Here’s a pix of him having mistaken Vaseline for his mom’s hair gel and loading up those locks! 😀 https://promptlings.wordpress.com/2016/02/25/garage-band-baby/
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janebasilblog said:
Now THAT is a totally adorable child 🙂
Washing vaseline out of a child’s hair – hmm…
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calensariel said:
Dawn dishwashing liquid. 🙂
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annacottage said:
Lovely moment between the two of you to treasure.
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calensariel said:
It certainly was an unexpected surprise. 🙂
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Old Herbaceous said:
Enjoy them!
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calensariel said:
We do enjoy them. The biggest problem is only seeing them twice a year. We’re at that age where we’re pretty set in our routines, and sometimes being around them for a concentrated bit of time can be a little traumatic! LOL But we manage! The saddest part is seeing them grow up so fast in between times… 🙂
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spiritualdragonfly said:
I love it and this kinds of moments!! They’re the bestest!!!!!
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calensariel said:
Definitely makes you feel like you didn’t imagine all those great times when they were growing up. Though learning to whisk eggs? That one was a surprise! LOL
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spiritualdragonfly said:
It’s the little moments that turn out meaning the most ❤️
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ruthlakes said:
Such a lovely moment – so precious. Thank you for sharing it.
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calensariel said:
Gotta catch ’em when you can. Like you say, it’s a moment. If you blink you miss it!
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Clare said:
Such a perfect haiku to complement a beautiful story. I absolutely love it.
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calensariel said:
Thanks, hon. It WAS kind of a tender moment. 🙂
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Clare said:
I’m sure it was. Over the years I’ve had many with my girls, each one a treasure I hold dear.
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Soul Gifts said:
Gorgeous photos and a heartwarming story !
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calensariel said:
They’ve only been gone for 14 hours and I miss them already. BUT! I’ll get over that in a hurry when the chaos returns! LOL
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Soul Gifts said:
Enjoy the time you will have with them 🙂
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