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So here we are on the last post about MYSTERY. We’ve talked about whether we see life as a mystery or a problem to be solved, how we respond to problems, and what usually happens in our minds when we fail to solve them. Those are thought processes we usually don’t experience. Now, before we get to the last MYSTERY challenge, here’s a little story to think about…
There’s a well-known Zen parable about the man who was crossing a field when he saw a tiger charging at him. The man ran, but the tiger gained on him, chasing him toward the edge of a cliff. When he reached the edge, the man had no choice but to leap. He had one chance to save himself: a scrubby branch growing out of the side of the cliff about half way down. He grabbed the branch and hung on. Looking down, what did he see on the ground below? Another tiger!
Then the man saw that a few feet off to his left a small plant grew out of the cliff, and from it there hung one ripe strawberry. Letting go with one hand he found that he could stretch his arm out just far enough to pluck the berry with his fingertips and bring it to his lips. How sweet it tasted!
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We’re used to getting nuggets of conventional advice:
• Don’t wait for a tragedy to start appreciating the little things in life.
• Stop and smell the honeysuckle. (Or pumpkin muffins if they’re more you’re thing!)
• Count your blessings. Appreciate what you have instead of complaining about what you don’t.
But I prefer to offer these mystery points:
• If spiritual growth is what you seek, don’ ask for more strawberries, ask for more tigers.
• The threat of the tigers, the leap from the cliff, are what give the strawberry its savor — no tigers, no sweetness.
• In falling we somehow gain what means most. In falling we are given back our lives even as we lose them.
“““Philip Simmons, Learning to Fall: Recording the Blessings of an Imperfect Life
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This week’s prompt is a double header. And it might be a head-scratcher!
Does seeing problems as mysteries
change your perspective about life?
&
What problems in your life
are you ready to give up trying to solve?
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Seeing problems in my life as mysteries has given me lots to think about. I look forward to reading what YOU think about it all!
As always, remember to include the link to this post on YOUR blog post. Or if your response isn’t overly long, feel free to leave it in the comment section below. And please feel free to interpret the prompt however you wish: memoirs, poems, pictures, etc.
If you would like to see the previous prompts, they’re listed in the menu at the top of the blog in The Sandbox Writing Challenge. But please feel free to just jump in wherever we are at the moment! After all, the prompts are really for YOU to get to know YOURSELF. (Posts from past prompts you wish to tackle will always be added to the current week’s challenge page.) Next week we’ll be considering ACCEPTANCE. 🙂
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Picture Credits:
Tiger — www.youtube.com
Sherlock — spyhollywood.com
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Safar’s post (Blisters, Bunions & Blarney) — I am a bug
Linda’s post (Spiritual Dragonfly) — The Trouble With Problems
LuAnne’s thoughts (Wind Rush) — see comment below
Descartes’ thoughts (Heretofore — Forgotten Victorian Novels) — see comment below
Calen’s post (Impromptu Promptlings) — It’s hard not to worry! Truly!
Lori’s post (As the Fates Would Have It) — The Problem With Tigers
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I have run out of oomph to come up with a published post in response to this, what with the time consuming writing course. So my problem solving in the moment is not to write one and let myself gently off that hook for this week 🙂
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You know, I haven’t written one either yet. But I think it’s because I’m not WILLING to give up any of my problems! Gotta see what I can come up with. Maybe the new topic today will be easier? Acceptance. But then, I don’t think THIS book was meant to be easier. So if any of you guys feel it’s not working well, let me know and I’ll see what else I can find.
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I don’t mind the challenge – perhaps it’s more about the timing coinciding with the writing course.
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Great prompt, Lady C. Here is part of a journal entry I wrote this morning that I think relates to your prompt:
I think this philosophy of mindfulness is a paradox. You can notice, you can be present but you still have to limit your scope. There will always be that which you are not paying attention to, even if it’s something happening in China or in the grass outside your window or your digestion or your body healing a wound . You cannot possibly take it all in. So you focus on what you can. At every moment, all the other moments are gone but simultaneously still there. It’s a mystery.
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Very good observations. I’ve talked to Plato about that some, about being an observer of your own self. I came away thinking we can really only observe OURSELVES in the moment, how we’re responding, not what all is going on around us. I find it all kind of mysterious. (I’m a little when it comes to this mindfulness stuff. rolls eyes…)
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What was that film where the main character had escaped death so often he believed he could eat strawberries without getting anaphylactic shock (he had a strawberry allergy)?
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“Fearless” with Jeff Bridges?
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Think that’s it. Good film- talk of strawberries reminded me of it.
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Actually strawberries with a sprinkle of freshly ground black pepper, some Cointreau and ice-cream is THE best! But that is too good to share – especially with tigers 🙂
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Oh my, and I thought I’d never meet anyone who would think that ice-cream and black pepper on strawberries go together! But Cointreau – never thought of that!
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We were served it once at a a very fancy French restaurant – made at the table with the Cointreau flamed. The black pepper brings out the flavour of the strawberries – yum !!!!
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I’m drooling.
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🙂
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I can’t even IMAGINE what that tastes like!!!
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Great post and some great advice! It’s amazing how often I forget to count my blessings actually. I definitely think life is a mystery. Being a Christian, I but my faith in prayer, so I don’t have the existential problem some people encounter. With regards to the tigers, I love strawberries, so that’s at least a positive hehehe.
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I’m really bad about that whole counting your blessings thing. I’ve tried three different times to start a gratitude journal. About the only thing I realized I kept putting in there was my washer and dryer! It makes me feel bad that I seem to be such a worst-case- scenario person. Wish I could get over that. Have you collected any kind of stories like that in your teaching travels, DB? (I guess I should have asked you before how you prefer to be addressed on here!)
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I know what you mean. I feel the same.It is difficult to count your blessings sometimes – especially when you’re in the middle of a difficult year. Most of the stories I collect are folklore based as I love this area of stories. I originally come from Wiltshire, UK, which is VERY rich in ghost and folklore stories, so I like hearing about these kind of stories from other cultures too! Descartes 🙂
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Great post and some great advice! It’s amazing how often I forget to count my blessings actually. I definitely think life is a mystery. Being a Christian, I but my faith in prayer, so I don’t have the existential problem some people encounter. With regards to the tigers, I love strawberries, so that’s at least a positive hehehe.
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DB, do you have an alter ego that likes to follow you around? 😀 😉
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Hmmm…I would pluck the strawberry, toss it to the tiger below…and while he was distracted eating it, I’d make a run for it.
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LOL Very creative! There’s a lot to be said for thinking outside the box, eh? 😀
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I’m always asking for more tigers! There are so few left.
And as for the strawberries – any chance of a dollop of vanilla ice-cream and maybe a sprinkling of sugar?
Or am I asking for too much? Or even getting the wrong end of this stick?
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Well, I guess in this scenario everyone’s entitled to his favorite last meal! Even the tiger! LOL A little ice cream and sugar might make it so slippery you’d drop it! See how we are? We want it all. 😀
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