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This week’s Sandbox Writing Challenge from Roberta Allen’s book, The Playful Way To Knowing Yourself, asks: If you could foresee one accomplishment in your future, what would you like it to be?
This is one of those thoughts that gets sticky for me. Being a Gemini, I have that wonderfully confusing dual personality. So there’s a practical side of me and a self-centered side of me, and the two seem always to be at war. It’s especially difficult for me when family members ask me what I want for my birthday or Christmas.
The practical side of me stops and thinks of all the things I’d LIKE to have around the house but fall into the incidentals category and I can’t justify spending the money on them myself. New bathroom rugs, for example. What’s wrong with the ones we already have — besides the fact that I’m sick of them!
On the other hand, the self-centered side of me is always up for books or anything to write with! An Amazon gift card suits me fine as I can spend hours on there looking at pens and journals and books.
So this question leaves me in a bit of a dilemma, and the only way I can answer it is to answer for both sides of me…
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The practical side of me would say I’d like for us to be able to get the house all fixed
up and sorted out with new carpet, a deck, kitchen/bath overhaul, new roof — you get the picture — before his lordship retires so we won’t be having to spend what little social security money we have to try and take care of those things. Having been through the sorting out and selling of three family homes when our parents passed away, we KNOW what a huge job that is. The last thing I want our kids to have to do is all that fixer-upper stuff before they can dispose of our property when we have gone. To have the house all brought up to date and sound enough to last us the rest of our lives would bring me enormous peace of mind.
Now the self-centered side of me is much more fanciful. There’s nothing in the world she would like so much as to spend a month in the British Isles without having to fret about money. I’ve waited my entire life to get to Ireland, Scotland, England, and Wales, and I’m pretty sure two weeks wouldn’t do it for me. In fact, once I get there, I might not want to come home at all! Then we’d have a problem… My heart has always been there, and that side of me just wants to know why.
And there is one more small complication in answering this question. I was born on the cusp of Taurus and Gemini, so I can legitimately claim to be like Sybil! I have THREE feuding personalities. That third part of me would like nothing more than to see our kids both settled somewhere close and happy. I doubt there’s anything I could do about that, but as we’re approaching retirement age we’d sure love to have them somewhere near us — at least within driving distance — so we could be a part of each other’s lives.
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(Now if she has a challenge about a genie in a bottle and three wishes, I’m all set! 😀 )
(Picture Credits: fortune teller — blog.cadimage.com / house — beautifulnashvillehomes.wordpress.com / Ireland — www.nextgenerationtrust.com / family — www.discoveryisle.com)
Fimnora Westcaw said:
Oh dear! you do have a dilemma! But I fully understand being pulled in different directions. Great post, because all of you needs to be spoken for. That is very important, and perhaps, IF you should manage ALL of those hopes and wishes, then that would be a huge accomplishment! Imagine that! 🙂
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calensariel said:
Yes! My expiration date would find me a very happy person! 😀 Happy Thanksgiving, dear heart!!! ❤ Hope your Chinese dinner got there ok last night.
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Fimnora Westcaw said:
Thank you! Hoping your celebration turned out extra special!
We almost didn’t get the food, as they never showed up and after 45 minutes, we called, and they said they were on the way. Finally, the car arrived, and of course, not everything was included. Turns out the guy said one of the items was not available, but I didn’t hear him because it was so noisy there that he couldn’t hear me, nor I him. And it was the best part of the dinner. Oh well, we DID have a piece of pumpkin pie which will be served over the next several days as well. 🙂
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calensariel said:
My gosh… You did struggle this year, didn’t you! Stupid Cracker Barrel!
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S. Thomas Summers said:
Hmmmmmmmmmm.
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calensariel said:
LOL Now what in heaven’s name does that mean? 😀
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Laura said:
Gifts are supposed to be for the self-centered side, aren’t they? No one really wants to have bathroom rugs for Christmas. Although, just today I was wondering if I shouldn’t ask for a new immersion blender… It would at least be useful.
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calensariel said:
I know. My practical side wins out more often than not. Fimnora ALMOST has me talked into asking for one of the little robot vacuums. Especially since it does both carpets and hard surfaces with no need to stop and adjust it. The unhappy discs in my back would be forever grateful! The kids like to give me Amazon or Walmart gift cards ’cause then it can go either way. LOL
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Laura said:
That would be kind of neat. Almost like a pet and save time and effort on housework.
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calensariel said:
I heard someone say the other day, if your floors look clean your whole house seems cleaner. What a draw!!! Wonder if the vacuum company came up with that… 🙂
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nonsmokingladybug said:
I was almost tempted to join this sandbox challenge and I would have been off by miles.
As for your wishes and dreams..may they all come true.
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calensariel said:
Off by miles? You? Come on! Even I knew what I would like to see happen. 😀 And thank you for the good wishes.
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